{"id":4913,"date":"2024-05-31T14:24:49","date_gmt":"2024-05-31T19:24:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.northwestpharmacy.com\/healthperch\/?p=4913"},"modified":"2024-05-31T14:24:54","modified_gmt":"2024-05-31T19:24:54","slug":"how-to-talk-to-family-and-friends-about-a-major-medical-diagnosis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.northwestpharmacy.com\/healthperch\/how-to-talk-to-family-and-friends-about-a-major-medical-diagnosis","title":{"rendered":"How To Talk to Family and Friends About a Major Medical Diagnosis"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>If you\u2019ve recently received a major medical diagnosis, you\u2019re likely going through lots of emotions. You may also be thinking about how you\u2019re going to tell your family and friends. This serious news is hard enough to process already, and it can still be difficult to let others know.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re looking for support and ideas on how to approach these conversations, we\u2019re here to help. Keep reading for communication tips and things to consider when telling your family about a major medical diagnosis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Take Time to Process Your Diagnosis First<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Before reaching out to family members and friends about your diagnosis, it\u2019s important to first make sure you <a href=\"https:\/\/www.mayoclinichealthsystem.org\/hometown-health\/speaking-of-health\/8-tips-for-coping-with-a-serious-diagnosis\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">take time for yourself<\/a>. Take a few days or a week to sit with the information you\u2019ve just received. Let yourself feel the full spectrum of your emotions \u2014 it\u2019s normal to feel anxious and fearful and deny that you\u2019ve been diagnosed with a serious condition.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Some people find it helpful to start journaling to get their thoughts and feelings out on paper. Buy yourself a new journal and keep it nearby throughout your day. Alternatively, you can set aside some time each morning or evening to write about what\u2019s on your mind. You can also try creating voice memos on your cell phone if you prefer talking rather than writing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If someone close to you was present for your diagnosis, you can also talk to them. Ask them to sit and lend a listening ear, or even just keep you company while you process what has happened. Once you\u2019re able to organize your thoughts and feelings around your diagnosis, you can then talk to family and friends about it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Research Your Diagnosis If You\u2019d Like<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Some people find power in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.mayoclinichealthsystem.org\/hometown-health\/speaking-of-health\/8-tips-for-coping-with-a-serious-diagnosis\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">knowing as much about their diagnosis<\/a> as they can. Others would rather learn only what\u2019s on a need-to-know basis. If you\u2019d like, take to the internet to do some searching. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pennmedicine.org\/cancer\/navigating-cancer-care\/your-role-in-your-care\/talking-to-doctors-friends-and-family\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Get information from reliable sources<\/a>, like:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li>Your doctor or healthcare team<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Major hospitals, such as Cleveland Clinic or Mayo Clinic<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Government websites, such as the National Institutes of Health (NIH) or Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nonprofit organizations for people living with your diagnosis<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Researching your diagnosis arms you with knowledge for later conversations with family and friends.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Create a List of What You\u2019d Like To Talk About<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>In the heat of the moment, it\u2019s easy to forget what you\u2019d like to say. Take time to make a list of the topics you want to discuss when meeting with family and friends. Write down important information or answers to questions you think might be asked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019d like to maintain some privacy for the time being, it\u2019s also fine to give general details about your health and diagnosis. Keep in mind that you control the conversation and get to choose what you share about your life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Starting a Conversation with Family and Friends<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>After you\u2019ve taken the time to prepare, you\u2019ll want to set up a meeting with family and friends. This can be done one-on-one or in a group setting, depending on what you\u2019re comfortable with. At the meeting, start by informing everyone of your diagnosis and give the details you feel are appropriate. Answer any questions you\u2019re able to or want to, setting boundaries as much as you\u2019d like.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Expect that some family and friends will react in different ways to the news. Some may be sad, angry, or frustrated. It\u2019s important to note that you can\u2019t control how they react. They may need time, like you did, to process the diagnosis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Asking for Help<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Some people struggle with the overwhelming responses of family and friends in the wake of a diagnosis. For many, pity makes them feel worse about their current situation. Advocate for yourself and explain that these sentiments aren\u2019t helping your situation. Instead, ask them to stand beside you in strength and offer a helping hand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Receiving a major medical diagnosis is devastating, but you don\u2019t have to face it alone. After meeting with family and friends, start a list of who has offered to help. Use it to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.mayoclinichealthsystem.org\/hometown-health\/speaking-of-health\/8-tips-for-coping-with-a-serious-diagnosis\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">build a support network<\/a> of people you trust moving forward. Taking over tasks like running errands, walking your dog, or driving you to doctor\u2019s appointments makes a big impact.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Handling Unsolicited Advice<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Some family members or friends may try offering unsolicited advice or help that you don\u2019t want or need yet. You can thank them for the offer but let them know that you\u2019re fine at the time. Explain to them that your doctor and healthcare team are responsible for your treatment plan and you\u2019ll be following their instructions. You can also offer to do your own research on the matter and come to your own conclusions. The family member or friend may mean well but remember \u2014 you\u2019re in control of your own health.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.northwestpharmacy.com\/healthperch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Major-Medical-Diagnosis.jpg\" alt=\"Talking to Family and Friends About a Major Medical Diagnosis Banner\" style=\"width:100%;\"\/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you\u2019ve recently received a major medical diagnosis, you\u2019re likely going through lots of emotions. You may also be thinking about how you\u2019re going to tell your family and friends. This serious news is hard enough to process already, and it can still be difficult to let others know. 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